Holiday Survival Tips for Divorcing Parents: Part Two

Holiday Survival Tips for Divorcing Parents: Part 2

The holiday season is officially here. Decorations are going up, calendars are filling quickly, and emotions may feel bigger than ever. If you’re divorced—or divorcing—this time of year can be especially challenging. But with a little preparation, you can create space for joy, new beginnings, and meaningful connections.

Last month we shared the first four holiday survival tips. Today, here are the final three to carry you through December and into the New Year:

5. Be Flexible

Life happens. A child may get sick, travel plans might shift, or weather may cancel an event. Flexibility is key. Communicate changes as early as possible, and be willing to compromise when necessary. Also, be sure to follow your custody agreement or court-ordered schedule. Holidays don’t need to be perfect—they just need to be filled with love.

6. Happy New Year: New Year, New You

Divorce often brings a sense of ending—but the New Year can bring a fresh start. Take this opportunity to set personal, financial, and professional goals. Start a New Year’s journal, write down your dreams, and encourage your children to do the same. This season can mark the beginning of a new chapter for both you and your family.

7. Know You Are Not Alone

It may feel like you’re the only one struggling, but you’re not. In fact, nearly 675,000 divorces took place in the U.S. last year alone. You don’t have to navigate this alone—support groups, divorce coaches, and community resources can help. Reaching out for support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

🌟 Final Thought: The holidays may look different after divorce, but they can still be filled with joy, connection, and new traditions. With preparation, flexibility, and support, you and your children can not only survive the holidays—you can thrive in them.

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