Betting the Farm on the Next Relationship: Rebound Relationships Can Be Costly 

We've all seen it—the person who, in the midst of a divorce, falls head over heels for someone new, and suddenly their entire focus shifts to the next chapter. They're convinced this new relationship is the one and are eager to move forward.

But here's the hard truth: there's no such thing as a "sure thing" in rebound relationships. When you make life-altering decisions—financial, legal, or emotional—based on a new romance rather than a clear, level-headed strategy, you may be setting yourself up for regret.

One example is Susan.Susan met someone new just as her divorce was being negotiated. Caught up in the excitement, she made compromises in her settlement—giving up more than she needed to, just to fast-track the process. Five years later, the relationship ended badly, and she realized she had jeopardized her financial security for someone she didn't even like anymore.

Slow down. Protect yourself.

If this new relationship is truly meant to be, it will still be there when you've taken the time to finalize your divorce wisely. This is the moment to focus on:

✓ Your financial future – Ensure a fair and sustainable settlement before making any major commitments.
Your children (if you have them) – Prioritize their stability, not just your emotional needs.
Your own well-being – You deserve to enter a new relationship on solid ground, not as an escape from the pain of your past.

Divorce is already one of the biggest transitions of your life. Don't complicate it further by entangling yourself in a new relationship before you're truly ready. Love yourself enough to see this process through with clarity and confidence.

"Betting the Farm on the Next Relationship" is just one of the common mistakes women make during divorce. To avoid making this mistake and others, download my e-book here.

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